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Hey guys. Here is how it is. This girl i occasionally work with is dead fit, and she is fucking sweet. great personality etc..... Well i dont go to the same school as her. I got her number and email and we talk a fair bit every night. Just wondering if you can gimmie some help on how to ask her out or how to find out if she is seeing someone at the moment, cos she is stunning, so i wouldnt be surprised. Also, take into consideration i have no life for the next 5 weeks as i am neck deep in exams.

Many thanks, TJ [img]images/smilies/icon_jam.gif[/img]

[El_jalepeno]

Ask her to lunch or dinner when you both are at work, or if you are in the same grade, tell her you are having some difficulties with a particular class and if she would mind helping you study for the exams.

Don;t forget to post pics either [img]images/smilies/icon_thumb.gif[/img] [img]images/smilies/icon_nono.gif[/img]

[image]http://members.lycos.co.uk/bikersheaven/sweet.bmp[/image]

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Any more ideas, need to find out if she has a bloke before asking shit like that lol. Dont wanna ask her straight up cos then at work it would be horrible. Tell me a subtle way!

TJ [img]images/smilies/icon_dance.gif[/img]

Yeah just copy and paste the link to explorer....

[El_jalepeno]

Here's the pic.

Towlie, you don't want to fuck this up, so give me her number and I will put in a good word for you. [img]images/smilies/icon_thumb.gif[/img]

[ericgtr]

Towlie, I would simply ask her if she is seeing someone, I am sure she would be neither surprised or offended if you phrase it politely, in fact she may be flattered by it. I have a feeling that you will get an idea of what she thinks of you by her reaction when you ask, then just take it from there. Sounds like there is no hurry so take your time with it and let it play out naturally.

[VHF]

Towlie,

Just ask her out....regardless if she is seeing anyone else, as long as there's no ring on her finger she's fair game. My wife was with with some other guy the first few times I met her...asked her out anyway.

Or you can take the coward's way out and have a friend do it for you.

[El_jalepeno]

Most definately don't let a friend do it for you! He may score while you're home surfing guitars101.com on the weekend [img]images/smilies/icon_nono.gif[/img]

[eternal]

Just ask her out to dinner or something. If she says Yes surely she is not dating or seeing anyone.

Okies thanks for teh help. You can delete the pic now lol.

[Mondy]

Just go ahead and ask dude. Don't take my route and just chicken out of it, scared of rejection. That way you'll just end up rueing missed opportunities.

Ask her out and be yourself. If you talk quite a lot already, it should be fine. If she does blow you out, don't mope around. Get over it and move on.

But it doesn't sound like she will.

Someone told me that the person who invented the light bulb didn't do it on the first attempt. He took 1000 attempts, but on the other 999 attempts, he learnt how * NOT * to invent a lightbulb. How this applies to this situation is if you do blow it royally, or if she does blow you out royally, then simply notch it up as "how not to ask a girl out, #1" and make sure you get it right the next time !

Hopefully it won't take you 1,000 times though !

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But be confident, don't let nerves get the better of yourself, and just be yourself and do it. You'll be pleasantly surprised, I'd wager.

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VHfanOU812 said:
Towlie,

Just ask her out....regardless if she is seeing anyone else, as long as there's no ring on her finger she's fair game. My wife was with with some other guy the first few times I met her...asked her out anyway.

Or you can take the coward's way out and have a friend do it for you.

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Yeah, my wife was dating my best friend when I met her. He was still the best man at the wedding! I've never been good at taking my own advice, but I missed some opportunities in my youth and trust me, you'll regret it.

[Mondy]

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I've never been good at taking my own advice, but I missed some opportunities in my youth and trust me, you'll regret it.

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*sigh*

Heather Greenhalgh. Man... [img]images/smilies/wutblau.gif[/img]

Don't end up making the same mistakes as your elders Towlie !!!

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